So I’ve gone to see this lady four times now – I found her through my insurance provider’s in-network online search (got tired of searching, called the first person on the list, and went to see her).
The first session is a lot of paper–filling, so that’s kind of okay and expected, but when she excused herself in the middle to go to the bathroom I was a bit..startled.
She also keeps her phone right next to her on the chair and occasionally checks it. I think she is checking texts, but last time when she pulled it out she was looking for some information that she’d written down (she is writing a book I hear) so I guess I was wrong, but still, the phone bothers me.
She has also gotten up to go to her purse to get hand cream. Fine,
Last week I think was the worst however – she just said, “Oh, I must do your billing” and got up, went to her desk and typed some stuff up on her laptop and printed something (my bills to go to the insurance company, I presume), and there was a pause in the conversation this whole time!
When she sat back I was just startled, felt disrespected, and was just like, whoa…that’s unprofessional!
I guess I should leave…BUT, I have opened up, told her some stuff, I feel like some stuff she’s said has been helpful, and because I really dislike her, we might be onto something (I definitely don’t wanna create a connection or feel like I need her. Have to keep her at a distance!)
So I don’t know. Is this normal? Should I just take it, or leave her?